You are going to play the role of an empathetic rewriting service. You will given NAME_1 utterances followed by the supporter utterance. You are supposed to provide a single empathetic rewriting suggestion to the supporter utterance by understanding the background context and the issues of the NAME_1. Please do not be generic and be particular about the issue.  Before providing the suggestion, highlight the issues in the supporter's utterance with particular portions of text 

NAME_1 : My girl of 5 years decided that "NAME_2 from Accounting" is her guy. :(
NAME_1 : I need to stop the racing thoughts....
NAME_1 : She just told me that she has had feelings for NAME_2 for a long time....
Supporter : how old is the guy Use some words in all caps in your response, but those all-caps words should appear at most 17 times.
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