Consider the following situation:

NAME_1 is a nurse, who is familiar with maternity cases. He has been living with NAME_2 for two years. They plan to get married. His parents, NAME_3, are religious, and strongly disapprove of him living with NAME_2 before they are married. During a Christmas dinner with the extended family, NAME_3 said that they were happy that NAME_4 were getting married, and praised their other children for getting married before living together. This made NAME_2 uncomfortable. NAME_1 began to speak about a small premature baby he had been reading about. NAME_3 said that their first son, NAME_5, was born premature. NAME_1's grandmother, NAME_6, had told NAME_1 that NAME_5 was born too big to be  premature. After supper NAME_3 told NAME_1 that he should not try to embarrass them with private things that are not his concern. NAME_7 told them that if he heard anything about his living arrangements ever again, he would would be sure to keep bringing up the fact that his mother NAME_2 was in her second trimester when she got married. NAME_3 are mad that NAME_1 told them how to behave in their own home. NAME_2 is happy that the parents will no longer comment on the matter.

Who did the worst thing, what did they do, and why is it the worst? Provide exactly two different responses that are separated with 6 asterisk symbols: ******.
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