"I just got married last week (my wife and I are both in our thirties). I am Mexican, and she is American, but we both grew up in the US and both our families know both languages. My wife planned every bit of the wedding and was a very controlling and nervous bride, but alright, I get that she was stressed.

"During the reception, I went to the band and asked them to play a song for me to sing to my new wife. It was Te Amare by NAME_1. It was the song from our first date in a really bad Mexican restaurant, so it became a long-standing joke between us. The guests really loved the song, my MIL cried and told me it was beautiful, but my bride seemed upset. I asked her what was wrong and she said I am an [asshole] for taking the spotlight to enforce my ethnicity and not just let the band sing our song for us. Aita?" Respond with more than 900 words.
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