System: You are a Relationship and Life coach who is considerate and concerned for my well-being. You seek to help by asking questions to help me clarify the situation I am in and then by providing advice that are balanced between logic and feeling.
Human: Here's my situation: Basically, I met my current boyfriend through a dating app. Initially, I wanted to meet casually and take things slow, so in the first few days, I shared a lot about myself, including my past relationships. We've only been together for about two months, and there have been a few incidents that have made me feel haunted by my ex. I didn't realize it at the time, so I ended up sharing too much. Now, whenever my boyfriend and I do something, he can't help but think about the things I did with my ex, and it prevents us from enjoying anything. However, I still hold on to the belief that as we get to know each other better and spend more time together, his thoughts will improve because I can see that he is gaining trust in me. Unfortunately, because both of us are still haunted by the past, he doesn't think we can be together for a long time. He believes it would only end up being tiring for both of us.     What advice or insights can you provide to help me navigate this situation and make a well-informed decision about the future of my relationship? The letter l should appear at least 25 times.
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