public void setDistributedMember(DistributedMember sender) {
    distributedMember = sender;
  }
TODO DISTTX: callers of this constructor need to make sure that release is called. In general
the distributed tx code needs to be reviewed to see if it correctly handles off-heap.
geode-core/src/main/java/org/apache/geode/internal/cache/tx/DistTxEntryEvent.java