private void releaseMsgDestreamer(short msgId, MsgDestreamer md) {
    synchronized (destreamerLock) {
      destreamerMap.remove(msgId);
      if (idleMsgDestreamer == null) {
        md.reset();
        idleMsgDestreamer = md;
      } else {
        md.close();
      }
    }
  }
checks to see if an exception should not be logged: i.e., "forcibly closed", "reset by peer",
or "connection reset"
geode-core/src/main/java/org/apache/geode/internal/tcp/Connection.java