protected boolean shouldKillBeforeStoreUpdate(boolean isSuspended, boolean hasParent) {
      if (isSuspended && !killIfSuspended) {
        return false;
      }
      if (hasParent && !killIfHasParent) {
        return false;
      }
      return shouldKillBeforeStoreUpdate();
    }
Set when we want to fail AFTER state has been stored into the WAL. Rarely used. HBASE-20978
is about a case where memory-state was being set after store to WAL where a crash could cause
us to get stuck. This flag allows killing at what was a vulnerable time.
hbase-procedure/src/main/java/org/apache/hadoop/hbase/procedure2/ProcedureExecutor.java