@Override
  public void startupMessageFailed(ID mbr, String failureMessage) {
    // fix for bug #40666
    listener.memberDeparted(mbr, true,
        "failed to pass startup checks");
  }
Process a surprise connect event, or place it on the startup queue.

@param member the member
geode-membership/src/main/java/org/apache/geode/distributed/internal/membership/gms/GMSMembership.java