public Builder mergeUpdateRelationshipRequest(
                im.turms.server.common.access.client.dto.request.user.relationship.UpdateRelationshipRequest value) {
            if (updateRelationshipRequestBuilder_ == null) {
                if (kindCase_ == 212
                        && kind_ != im.turms.server.common.access.client.dto.request.user.relationship.UpdateRelationshipRequest
                                .getDefaultInstance()) {
                    kind_ = im.turms.server.common.access.client.dto.request.user.relationship.UpdateRelationshipRequest
                            .newBuilder(
                                    (im.turms.server.common.access.client.dto.request.user.relationship.UpdateRelationshipRequest) kind_)
                            .mergeFrom(value)
                            .buildPartial();
                } else {
                    kind_ = value;
                }
                onChanged();
            } else {
                if (kindCase_ == 212) {
                    updateRelationshipRequestBuilder_.mergeFrom(value);
                } else {
                    updateRelationshipRequestBuilder_.setMessage(value);
                }
            }
            kindCase_ = 212;
            return this;
        }
<code>.im.turms.proto.UpdateRelationshipRequest update_relationship_request = 212;</code>
turms-server-common/src/main/java/im/turms/server/common/access/client/dto/request/TurmsRequest.java